Tuesday, January 24, 2012

Baby Daddy’s Drama

Sports Central at L.A. Court 4 Stars, 4 Paternity Hearings, 5 Baby Mamas


The NFL, NBA and the UFC all collided in L.A. recently when four major sports stars were involved in four separate paternity hearings -at the same exact courthouse!!!

Wizards star Roger Mason, Terrell Owens along with MMA legend Chuck Liddell and Jacksonville Jaguars star Marcedes Lewis were all hanging out in the hallway on the 8th floor of the L.A. County Superior Courthouse each waiting to deal with their individual baby mama drama.

T.O. faced off with TWO baby mamas in an effort to lower his monthly child support obligation.   And get this Judge Marmaro said, "His NFL (Terrell Owens) career seems to be over. I mean no disrespect”.  The judge apparently felt sorry for the beleaguered parent, offering him a ray of hope by noting that Kurt Warner went from an Arena League player to a Super Bowl champ. The judge said he would think about Owens’ request for lower child support payments and get back to him at a later date.  Terrell currently has FOUR pending paternity cases. Hello Evelyn! Are you listening?

Liddell was there to handle money issues with his baby mama as well.

IS it me or do you also find this to be pathetic? This is typical of Black athletes with no financial understanding.  Sad, but this story is very common, and not just among star athletes. Too often men and I use the term men loosely, make babies, and walk without a second thought. They make these damn babies and are the first ones to show up on Maury hollering about how big a “hoe” so and so is, and that ain’t no way in Hell that baby is mines! And, when it turns out that the kid IS his first thing out their mouth is "I’m gone take care of mines”. Bullshit!  But that’s another Hot Topic.

I don't feel sorry for any of these guy, like many athletes, they got rich quickly and couldn't believe all this money was going to dry up.

 Man up! If you breed them, you must feed them! just like the rest of us good parents. BTW with all the money you’ve earned-couldn’t you afford a pack of Trojans?

IJS!

Tuesday, January 17, 2012

Should prostitution be legal?

  52-Year-Old Prostitute Sends Kids To College

Barbara Terry 52, is a mother of four children – two of which she has lovingly sent off to college, after raising them as a single mother. After 30 years of BACK_BREAKING work, she is on the verge of purchasing a home, embarking on the much-deserved retirement leg of her life’s journey. While her story is similar to many Black women, there is one small detail that makes people do a double-take: She's a prostitute. Terry has plowed her trade in the same neighborhood for more than 30 years, losing teeth and turning tricks while her mother and grandmother “pray for her every Sunday at church.”- Terry is a preferred customer at Riker’s Island, having been arrested more than 100 times. Her children want her to stop living in the streets, but that matter is closed to discussion. “This is how I’m supporting you. For me, it’s a business, a regular job.” Terry’s profitable, albeit, unorthodox occupation opens the door to a very provocative question that has been recycled again and again over time without any discernible shift in policy.

Making its official appearance in the Holy Bible, prostitution is considered “the world’s oldest profession.” At this pivotal point in history, unemployment stands at an improved 8.5 percent, yet still 15.8 percent in the Black community are jobless. It’s become such a desperate situation that stay-at-home Moms are resorting to becoming phone sex operators in order to survive.

Still, even in these crushing times, Nevada remains the only state in the nation where prostitution is legal. According to state officals, Nevada employs about 1,000 women who take pride in their profession.


Should the “oldest profession in the world” be legal?  Prostitution is a subjective morality issue, not a policy issue – or at least it should be. While this may be a novel idea for this country, if we keep politics far away from a woman’s vagina, the results may surprise many of us.

Closer to the point, the crime shouldn’t be prostitution. The real crime is criminalizing what women choose to do with their bodies.

Legalizing prostitution would be in keeping with recent developments that show governments are willing to try creative approaches to curbing what they consider “lawlessness.” From organizations selling crack pipes to addicts-to the intense push by some law enforcement officials to legalize marijuana.

It is time for us to evolve in our collective thinking and incorporate methods that actually solve problems in this country.  For that to occur, people must stop making the  mistake of equating “legal” and “illegal” with the illusive ideals of “right” and wrong.”

Should prostitution be legal? Hell YES! Make the Hoe's legal, get them a new Pimp, and call him Uncle Sam.

Tuesday, January 10, 2012

Where They Do That At?

Should we teach our daughters that fairy-tails are just that, and that they should be ready to NOT “live happily ever after”? That they need to finish school and be independent before they get married. And by doing this are we teaching our daughters that they should lower their expectations of men in general, and realize from the on-set that men are not capable of being in a faithful or monogamous relationship