Negotiated Infidelity

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According to Newsweek, roughly 50 percent of married men will cheat, and at least 81 percent won’t admit to it even after their partner asks.

On this week episode of Basketball Wives ( aka-Basketball Jump-off’s), Evelyn Lozada who was once engaged to basketball, Antoine Walker, questions current fiancé Chad Ocho Cinco about alleged rumours flying around the internet regarding Chad’s supposedly infidelities with other women. In his feeble attempt to defend his actions Chad informs Evelyn “that he’s on the road a lot and some minor missteps alone the way”. Being committed to only one person is a new (concept) for him. Evelyn retorts that Chad needed to get his shiz together, they are getting married in 6 months, and to just fess up and tell her the truth. She’d rather know then, not know, about his alleged infidelities. Tell me the truth, go out and get some condoms- be 100 with me”.

And here’s the kick in the azz part- Chad looked Evelyn deeply in her eyes and with a straight face said, “We should both go out, together, and if I see somebody I like I think we should bring her home”.

Okay, stay with me, here is where most woman would ask their man if he’s lost his ever lovin’ rabbit mind, right? Wrong. Instead Evelyn replied “what if I don’t like her-a?”

Is it ever OK to go outside of a marriage? We assume that it's always men that cheat? Don't women do it also? And if women do it, do we need to "negotiated infidelity” in order to "save" the marriage? Would you rather know the truth about your partner's identity even if it were painful? Would you let your husband have a mistress to save your relationship?

Chad Ocho Cinco, or Johnson, or whatever the hell his name is now, needs to respect the sanctity of marriage and realize that his shiz does stink!


IJS




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